69 is a position in which two people give each other oral sex at the same time. The name comes from the shape the two figures make. In an escort advert it is listed as something the escort is willing to do.
What it means in an advert
A profile that lists 69 is offering it as part of a booking. It is still the escort’s choice on the day, and it does not say whether a condom or a dental dam is used. That is a separate question, covered under OWO for oral sex without a condom.
Asking sensibly
- Ask what is included before you book.
- Agree protection in advance, not in the moment.
- Accept a no. It needs no reason and is not a negotiation.
Health
Oral sex can pass on infections including herpes, gonorrhoea, chlamydia and syphilis, and a condom or dental dam reduces the risk. Regular sexual health checks are sensible for anyone who has more than one partner, and they are free and confidential at NHS clinics.
Related terms
GFE and PSE describe the tone of a booking, and 69 is one of the acts that can sit inside either. The full shorthand guide has the rest.