A breeding kink is arousal from the idea of getting someone pregnant, or being got pregnant. For nearly everyone who has it, the appeal is the idea and the language around it rather than any intention to conceive.
What it is actually about
Usually possession and surrender rather than children. The talk, the claiming, the finishing inside, the idea of being marked or taken. People with this kink routinely use contraception and have no wish at all to have a baby, which is not a contradiction once you see that the fantasy is about the moment and not the consequence.
Where it does overlap with wanting children, it tends to be inside a relationship where that is already the plan.
The vocabulary
- Breeding. The kink itself, and the talk that goes with it.
- Creampie. Finishing inside, which is the act most often attached to it.
- Impregnation fantasy. The same thing stated plainly.
- Bareback. Without a condom, which is where the kink meets real risk. Bareback meaning covers why that is a separate decision.
The practical part
This is the kink where the fantasy and the risk sit closest together, so it is worth separating them deliberately. The talk costs nothing. Going without a condom is a decision about pregnancy and about infection, and it is not made in the moment by someone who is aroused.
Plenty of couples get everything they want from the language alone, with contraception throughout. STI testing in London covers where to go if the other decision is being made seriously.
In a paid booking
The talk is something many escorts will do happily, as part of the dirty talk and role play of a booking. Bareback is a different question entirely and most will not, for obvious reasons. Asking repeatedly after a no is the fastest way to end a booking and to be declined by anyone she talks to. The bareback guide covers why the answer is usually no, and how booking works covers raising it once, properly, in the first message.