Pegging is when a woman uses a strap on, a harness with a dildo, to penetrate a man anally. In an escort advert it is listed as an extra, often under “strap on”, and it is agreed beforehand.
What it means in an advert
A profile that lists pegging or strap on is saying it is available. It is still the escort’s choice on the day, and many escorts do not offer it. The two words are used for the same thing. Ask what is meant, because some listings mean a light version.
Safety basics
- Plenty of water based lubricant, and a slow pace.
- Clean equipment, with a fresh condom over the toy if it is shared.
- Communication throughout, and a stop at once if anything hurts.
- Wash the equipment afterwards, or throw away what cannot be cleaned.
Agreeing it
Raise it in the first messages, not at the door. Ask whether the escort provides the equipment or expects you to bring your own, and accept a no. The extra usually costs more, so ask for the total. How booking works covers the first message.
Related terms
Pegging sits among the practices described in fetish and domination escorts, and it often appears with domination. The services index lists the other terms.