Dom, Domme, Sub and Switch: BDSM Roles Explained

Last checked October 2026

Dom, domme, sub and switch are the role words in BDSM. A dom leads, a sub follows, a switch does both, and every one of them works inside limits that are agreed beforehand.

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AdaBond Street£300
AdrianaMarylebone£300
AlaniBayswater£400
AlenkaMarylebone£300
AlexandriaSouth Kensington£250
AmaCentral London£200
AmayaMarble Arch£300
AmeliaPaddington£300
AmiraGloucester Road£300
AnastaciaElephant and Castle£200
AndreaBayswater£200
AngelaEarls Court£250

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AnnabellaEarls Court£250
AntoinetteEarls Court£250
AriesMarylebone£300
ArissMarylebone£250
AtlantaBayswater£250
AveryHigh Street Kensington£750
BonitaBayswater£250
BonniePaddington£250
BridgetPaddington£400
CapricePark Lane£250
CarolEarls Court£200
CatalenaMarble Arch£250
CharlieMarylebone£300
ChelseaGloucester Road£300
CinderellaBond Street£200
ClariceEarls Court£400
CrinaPaddington£250
DaikiriPark Lane£250
DavinaGloucester Road£300
DeepikaBayswater£500
DivaPark Lane£600
DivineEarls Court£200
ElenaEarls Court£250
EmmaEarls Court£300
EnyaGloucester Road£300
ErikaHigh Street Kensington£600
FebaGloucester Road£300
FelicidadBayswater£250
FloraGloucester Road£750
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GillEarls Court£300
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GuadalupeBaker Street£300
GwenEdgware Road£350
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JennisonSloane Square£250
JessyEarls Court£250
JosephineMarylebone£250
JustinaEarls Court£250
KaliTower Hill£350
KaraGreat Portland Street£350
KiranBayswater£300
KrissyBayswater£250
LaryGloucester Road£250
LindaEarls Court£250
LindseyPaddington£250
LuluMarble Arch£250
MariannaSoho£350
MashaGloucester Road£750
MelanieBaker Street£300
MelikaEarls Court£250
MilanaEarls Court£300
MinolaBaker Street£200
MirabellaEarls Court£350
MirindaSloane Square£250
MonalisaBayswater£250
NancyGloucester Road£300
NandiniPaddington£300
NataleeFitzrovia£200
NovahGloucester Road£600
OlesyaGloucester Road£750
PriyankaPaddington£300
RachellaPaddington£250
RafaelaGloucester Road£250
RavenSloane Square£300
RebbaEarls Court£250
RebekahEarls Court£300
RehanaPaddington£300
SaffronePaddington£250
SamanthaPark Lane£750
SaraiSloane Square£300
SarikaMayfair£600
StephanieEdgware Road£200
SummerBond Street£600
SushmitaCentral London£350
TabbyRegent's Park£250
TaisEdgware Road£300
TeyaBayswater£200
TS ParisHigh Street Kensington£300
ValeriaEarls Court£300
VenusKnightsbridge£300
XiaTottenham Court Road£350
YaniraGloucester Road£300
YunitaEarls Court£400

The roles

Dom. Short for dominant, the person who leads and sets the rules within what was agreed.
Domme. A woman in the dominant role. A professional one may be called a dominatrix: see what a dominatrix is.
Sub. Short for submissive, the person who follows within the limits they set. What does submissive mean? goes further.
Switch. Someone who enjoys both roles, sometimes in the same session.
Top and bottom. About who gives and who receives sensation, which is not always the same as who is in charge.

How roles become a booking

An escort who lists domination is offering to lead, and one who lists submissive is offering to follow, in each case within limits. They are offers and not promises, and the conversation before the booking is part of it. Fetish and domination escorts sets out what to agree.

Consent

Roles are chosen, not assumed. A safe word stops everything at once, hard limits are never crossed, and the person leading is responsible for staying inside what was agreed. What is BDSM? and what kink means explain the rest.

Common questions

What does dom mean?

Short for dominant, the person who leads and sets the rules within what was agreed. A woman in the role may be called a domme.

What does sub mean?

Short for submissive, the person who follows within the limits they have set.

What is a switch?

Someone who enjoys both the dominant and the submissive role, sometimes in the same session.

What is the difference between top and bottom?

It is about who gives and who receives sensation, which is not always the same as who is in charge.

What is BDSM?

An umbrella term for consensual practices involving restraint, power exchange, role play and intense sensation. The letters stand for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism.

What does BDSM stand for?

Bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism. The first letters of those three pairs make up the word.